Communicating Your Wishes

Once you’ve drafted your will, designated an executor, outlined your healthcare preferences, and planned your memorial service, the most important step is to have an open and honest conversation with your loved ones. Even if you’re not ready to talk about the specifics, letting them know you’ve planned ahead and where to find your important documents can provide them with peace of mind.

Share your thoughts on the type of service you’d like, any preferences for memorial donations, and any special requests (such as a particular charity you want donations to go to, or a special remembrance that’s important to you). This will not only give them clarity but will also ensure that your final wishes are respected.

Steps to communicate your wishes:

• Have a conversation with your family or a trusted friend about your end-of-life plans and where they can access your documents.

• Make sure someone knows where to find your legal and medical paperwork, including your will, healthcare directives, and life insurance.

• Share your thoughts on your memorial service so your family can take the lead and honor your preferences.

How to Make Sure Your Plan Is Followed

Once you’ve organized your end-of-life documents and communicated your wishes, make sure your plan is followed by keeping everything in one place. Store your documents in a safe but accessible location (like a fireproof box, a locked drawer, or with a trusted person) and give your executor and healthcare power of attorney easy access to them when the time comes. Also, periodically review and update your plan, especially after significant life events such as marriage, the birth of children, or the death of a loved one.

Disclaimer: We’re not legal or medical professionals, and the content here is based on our own experiences, research, and the expert advice we've received. Our goal is to offer helpful guidance to get you started on your end-of-life planning journey. We’re here to make those conversations a bit easier, and while we aim to provide reliable information, this blog is not intended to serve as legal or medical advice. We always recommend consulting with a qualified legal and medical professional to finalize your plans.